Wedding venues in the UK: the complete first-timer’s guide
This guide explains how to choose, check and book a wedding venue in the UK. It suits couples starting from scratch. You can skim each section or read from start to finish to take your first steps towards choosing a wedding venue.
How to start in 60 minutes
When you first begin, the choice can feel endless. Use this fast method to narrow it down to 5 viable venues in one hour.
- Fix the three anchors:
- Headcount band: Under 60, 60–100, 100–150, 150+.
- Total venue budget band: Under £3k, £3k–£7k, £7k–£12k, £12k+ (venue, food, drink, basic hire items).
- Region: County or 60-minute travel radius for most guests.
- Pick your ceremony type: civil ceremony, religious ceremony, or legal registry office plus a separate celebration. (See legal basics.)
- Choose your service style: seated meal, sharing platters, buffet, street-food, cocktail reception, or afternoon tea.
- Decide on season and day of week: summer Saturdays are peak; winter weekdays are off-peak and cheaper. (See dates and seasons.)
- Search with filters, not vibes: use venue directories or council lists to filter by capacity, ceremony licence, exclusive use, and catering style.
- Email a simple availability check:Copy-paste: “Hello—We’re planning a [civil/ religious / celebration only] for [headcount band] in [month(s)/season], with budget [band] for venue, catering and basic hire. Do you have dates on [x/x/x]? Please share your full price list, what is included, and any corkage/minimum spend. Thank you.”
- Shortlist the first 5 venues to visit: pick those that reply with clear pricing, at least one viable date, and a floor plan.
Outcome: you have five realistic venues to visit with costs, capacity and dates that fit you.
Common venue types (pros, cons, price signals)
Hotels and country houses
Pros: in-house staff; wet-weather options; bedrooms on site; often ceremony-licensed; packages can simplify decisions.
Cons: less flexibility on catering and suppliers; décor may be fixed; “minimum spend” or “package per head” can limit control.
Barns and farm venues
Pros: character, space, and rustic look; good for large groups; often exclusive use.
Cons: seasonal heating; sound limits; remote transport; may require external caterers.
Manor houses, museums and heritage sites
Pros: striking settings; memorable photos; multiple rooms for ceremony, drinks and dinner.
Cons: rules on décor, candles, confetti; access limits to protect the building.
See Historic England’s guide to listed status.
Restaurants and city spaces
Pros: strong food and drink; central travel links; built-in furniture and crockery.
Cons: limited dancing space; hard finish times; less décor freedom.
Marquees, tipis and dry-hire sites
Pros: full flexibility; choose all suppliers.
Cons: more planning; power, toilets, lighting, heating and wet-weather plans add cost.
Registry offices plus celebration venues
Pros: clear legal ceremony; more celebration options; often cheaper.
Cons: two locations to coordinate; travel time between them.
Legal basics for ceremonies and licences
To be legally married or enter a civil partnership in England and Wales, you must follow the law for notices and for the place where the ceremony happens.
See official guidance on approval of premises for civil ceremonies and the Registrar General’s guidance.
Budgeting and cost control
There is no single “typical” venue cost in the UK. Prices vary by region, date, guest count, service style and what is included.
Use the free tools from MoneyHelper to plan and track your spend: how to create your wedding budget and the budget planner.
Capacity, layout and flow
Match the space to your guest numbers and event flow. Check floor plans, seating options and walking distances between ceremony, drinks and meal spaces.
Dates, seasons and timing
- Winter: lower cost, check heating and daylight.
- Spring: flowers and lighter evenings.
- Summer: outdoor space and ventilation matter.
- Autumn: golden light, good for indoor options.
Your site visit checklist
- Staffing and safety
- Accessibility and parking
- Sound limits and finish times
- Power, lighting and catering access
Food, drink and service styles
- Plated meal – formal, timed service
- Sharing platters – sociable, needs wide tables
- Buffet or stations – flexible, needs floor space
- Street food – informal, check power and fuel rules
Contracts, payments and your rights
Read all terms before paying a deposit. Ask for full inclusion lists and every possible fee. Check cancellation and postponement terms.
For guidance, see Citizens Advice on problems with a service.
Logistics: access, sound, neighbours and late licences
- Access times for setup and teardown
- Sound limits and curfews
- Outdoor use rules (fireworks, smoke, drones)
- Wet-weather alternatives
Guest needs: accessibility, children, pets and quiet spaces
- Step-free access and accessible toilets
- Children’s facilities and safety areas
- Quiet rooms for neurodivergent guests
- Pet policies and restricted areas
Style, décor and venue rules
- No pins or tape on walls
- LED candles preferred
- Biodegradable confetti only
- External structures need approval at listed sites
Sustainability and local suppliers
- Choose venues near most guests
- Use seasonal, local catering
- Rent décor and tableware
- Donate or reuse flowers
FAQs
How far in advance should we book?
12–24 months ahead for peak weekends; 3–9 months for weekdays or winter.
Does our ceremony space need a licence?
Yes, if it’s a civil ceremony. See GOV.UK venue approvals.
What if a supplier lets us down?
Always have written contracts and backups. Use Citizens Advice guidance if needed.
Glossary (jargon to plain English)
- Approved premises
- Venue approved for civil ceremonies; registrar must attend.
- Corkage
- Fee to bring your own alcohol.
- Dry-hire
- Space-only hire; all suppliers brought in.
- Exclusive use
- Private use of the venue for your event.
- Late licence
- Permission to serve alcohol or play music later than normal hours.
Wedding Venue shortlist template
| Venue | Region | Ceremony on-site | Capacity | Hire model | Price notes | What’s included | Key rules | Dates offered | Contact quality |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Example Manor | Norfolk | Yes | 120 / 160 | Hire + catering | £X–£Y inc. VAT | Tables, linen, coordinator | No pins, LED candles | Fri 10 Oct | Fast, clear replies |